IF MARRIAGE WERE'NT ALREADY HARD ENOUGH

Melody
and I went to a restaurant for lunch the other day, not just for the food, but
to get away from packing and enjoy a little quiet time together. While we sat
there talking with one another I noticed several couples (who looked like
husbands and wives), sitting at their tables, not talking, in fact not paying
any attention to one another at all. They instead had their cell phones out,
texting and checking their email and possibly their Facebook account.

Sadly,
this is not an unusual occurrence today at all. Everywhere you look you see
those little electronic devices in the hands of people around you.

What
about you and the other special people in your life? Do you need to send a text
to the person across the table to communicate with them? If you do, maybe you
need to consider life without electronics.

My friend
Ron sent me the following little story that makes a good point. "We had a
power outage at our house this morning and my PC, laptop, TV, DVD, iPad & my
new surround sound music system were all shut down. Then I discovered that my
Cell phone battery was flat and to top it off it was raining outside.

I went
into the kitchen to make coffee and then I remembered that this also needs
power, so I sat and talked with my wife for a few hours… She seems like a nice
person."

I know
you have heard the verse a thousand times, but notice it again for me, in Genesis
2:24 we read: "Therefore shall a man leave his father and
his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

You know this is not just a
suggestion from God, it is actually him telling us the way it is suppose to be!
In the original language the word "Cleve" has the idea of "to
stick to". Now there are a lot of implications to that idea, but
how close do you stick to your husband/wife? How can you stick with someone who
you don't spend time with?

Maybe you should try one day
without electronics. I know it would be difficult; you have the demands of your
job and your connections to others in life, but what about the ones you are
suppose to be sharing your life with? Try it sometime, you might find out that
the person across the table from you is really a nice person.

My wife and I took an extended
vacation recently with a total of about 10 days driving alone in the car. We
took a selection of CD's to listen to if we wanted, but do you know what we
did, we talked instead (that's a regular thing for us). We are interested in
one another, in our cares, or concerns, our likes and dislikes, the things that
worry us and the things that delight us. After almost 49 years together we
still enjoy sharing sunrises and sunsets and one another's company. We still
"cleave" together because that's what God intended for us to do.

Marriage is hard enough without all
of the confusion electronics bring to it. Try doing without them sometime, you
just might discover the person you fell in love with to begin with.

Russ Lawson

Never Give Up

Have you ever been to the point of giving up? Giving up on
your job, giving up on your family, giving up on life in general. Going through
my library I ran across an older book which I hadn't read for a number of
years. I started re-reading it and wanted to recommend it to each of my friends
and family. I hope you might share this with others as the book is such a great
blessing.

I talk with so many people who are struggling in their
lives. I read on Facebook about the many struggles that each of you have and
pray about that, but each of us face the question, "is there more I can do
when I hurt?" Yes there is, so let me recommend this book to you, "Have you felt like giving up lately,"
by David Wilkerson.

Some of the chapter headings are, When you hurt and there is
no physical cure, Why me, Lord? Friends try so hard to help, Time heals
nothing, Heartbreakers do not get off easy.

One of my favorite chapters is, "You can't carry your
own cross" (very interesting ideas). Then there is: You can't depend on
others for your happiness. Why do we feel like giving up, and what is the cure?
These are only a few of the chapters, but you get the idea.

You see what each of us need to remember is that there is
always hope! You may not feel like it as you grapple with the problems in your
life, but our God is a God of Hope!

What is the worst thing that can happen to you? What is it
that most people fear the most? For those in the world, those who are outside
of Christ, isn't it death? Yet Paul writes in 1Thessalonians 4:13-4, "Brothers
and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in
death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope.
For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will
bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him."

You see in the end, we have the promise of eternal life with
God. That is the hope that keeps us from giving up, no matter what.

Are you struggling, then perhaps you need to reevaluate your
relationship with Christ.

SOMETHING

It's always something isn't it? It seems like always, something
is changing, something old, something new, something challenging us, something
unexpected. That's the thing about life, it is full of the unexpected
"somethings" isn't it? One of the problems I see is that rarely do we
credit God for the unexpected somethings in our lives.

I ran
across a wonderful story that illustrates this point very well. There's a
store-front church which is called Almighty God Tabernacle. One Saturday
evening, the preacher of this church was working late, and decided to call his
wife before he left for home. It was about 10 PM, but his wife did not answer
the phone. The preacher let it ring about two dozen times but she didn't
answer. He thought it was a little odd, but decided to finish up a few things
and try a few minutes later.

When he
tried again, she answered right away. He asked her why she hadn't answered
before, and she said that the phone hadn't rung at their house. They brushed it
off as a fluke and went on their merry ways.

The
following Monday, the preacher received a call at the church office, which was
the phone that he'd used that Saturday night. The man that he spoke with wanted
to know why he'd called on Saturday night. The preacher couldn't figure out
what the guy was talking about. Then the guy said, "It rang and rang and rang,
but I didn't answer."

The preacher
then remembered the mishap and apologized for disturbing him, explaining that
he'd tried to call his wife. The man said, "That's
okay. Let me tell you my story. You see, I was planning to commit suicide on
Saturday night, but before I did, I prayed, 'God if you're there, and you don't
want me to do this, give me a sign now.' At that point my phone started to
ring. I looked at the caller ID, and it said, 'Almighty God'. I was afraid to
answer!"

Does
God work through the unexpected? Surely he does! Most of the time I don't think
we have any idea he may be involved with the unexpected something in our life,
but what if he is, what if God is trying to change our lives, trying to teach
us something "Life Changing"?

In Luke 5:1-11
Jesus comes to his apostles who had gone back to fishing. He asks them about
their success and they tell him they had fished all night and caught nothing.
He tells them to try one more time and they caught enough fish to sink the boats.
The unexpected had life changing results. We are told, "So they pulled their boats up on shore, left
everything and followed him."

I wonder what God is trying to show
us when the unexpected happens in our lives?

New Beginnings

Can you
believe it that we are now into a brand new year? I know it happens every year,
but it is such an amazing thing if you think about it. One of my favorite
quotes comes from the book Anne of Green Gables where she says that "we
begin every day new, with no mistakes". That's the way it is with our new
year isn't it? God gives us a fresh slate with no markings on it, and it is
entirely up to us to decide what is written there.

The New
Year also gives us a new branch on our road we call life. Will it be an
adventure or a mystery" Will it be a challenge or a time of peace and
rest? We never know and as disconcerting that concept is to some, it should
breathe into us a new zest for life as we face new challenges, new problems,
meet new people, have to adjust our lives and life styles. I don't know about
you, but I really don't want a stagnant life! If you are not experiencing
change or challenge then your life is going no where. It might not be dead, but
then it might also. Growth and change show that something is alive.

Right now,
at this time of the year, there are more people trying to make changes than any
other time of the year. That's why people make resolutions; to help them as
they try to institute changes in their lives. I personally, rarely make a New
Year's resolution, because I have so much going on in my life any way, there
are constant changes taking place within my life. Some good, some not so good,
just like many of you.

I
understand that not everyone is wired that way. "I read about one poor
fellow who decided to make only resolutions this year he could keep. He
resolved to gain weight, to stop exercising, to read less and watch more TV, to
procrastinate more, to quit giving money and time to charity, and to never make New Year's resolutions again."
(Duncan)

That
kind of thinking reminds me of one of my favorite Old Testament passages, Proverbs 24:30-34, where the writer
talks about those who refuse challenges. He says: "I walked by the field of a lazy
person, the vineyard of one with no common sense.  I saw that it was overgrown with nettles. It
was covered with weeds, and its walls were broken down. Then, as I looked and
thought about it, I learned this lesson: 
A little extra sleep, a little more slumber, a little folding of the
hands to rest then poverty will pounce on you like a bandit; scarcity will
attack you like an armed robber."

It really
is a time for new beginnings! It is a time to make the changes you have been
putting off, which may include you neglecting your relationship to Christ. How
about you, is it time for a change, a time to accept a new challenge or take
another leg on this adventure called life? Don't put it off, make that new
beginning.

Christmas Cards

Christmas
Cards, "Bah Humbug," some say… They cost too much, no one really
reads them anyway… It's too expensive and takes too much time to send
them."

Some may say
those things, but not at our house, at our house we love Christmas cards. We
love receiving them and love sending them. Granted in the present economic
situation in our society we don't mail as many as we once did. But still they
are an important part of our lives. Many of us have been forced to send an
"electronic" greeting now, which is a great avenue of staying in
touch, but I still cherish the old fashion paper cards also.

Each card, each
letter, each greeting, (electronic or otherwise), has a message of hope, a
message of love, they share precious thoughts and insights about our
relationships. We love to get the Christmas letters that often come with the
cards, because the truth of the matter is that far too often we just don't stay
in touch with those we really care about. We mean to do better, we mean to
call, write or visit, but as they say, "life interferes" with our
plans.

Christmas cards
may be the only time in the year that you communicate with someone you really
do care about in your life. We are separated by years and miles from many of
our dear friends. People that we love and truly cherish, but some we have not
seen for years. People who have touched our lives and helped make us who we are
today.

Christmas cards
remind us that there is a bond of love and friendship through Christ that can
never be parted. As long as we put Him first in our lives we will touch and be
touched by others.

We have some
old friends that taught us a lesson about Christmas cards years ago while
living in Africa. They kept their Christmas cards on the dinning room table and
each day when they asked God to bless their food they also chose one card and
ask God to bless those people that day also.

Many of you
have been a light to our paths in this life fulfilling Jesus' Words in Matthew 5:14-15, "You are the light of the world, like
a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden. No one lights a lamp and then puts
it under a basket. Instead, a lamp is placed on a stand, where it gives light
to everyone in the house."

So in this electronic age my wife and I wish each of you a
"Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year". And, May God Bless us
Everyone.

Promises Remembered ...

"And
God said, "This is the sign of the covenant I am making between me and you
and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations to come:

I
have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant
between me and the earth… Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will
see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living
creatures of every kind on the earth." (Genesis 9:12-16 NIV)

As we
were driving through Southern Arizona and California last week my wife and I were
in unusual weather for us, there was rain, lots of rain. It was somewhat
unusual because every now and then the sky would clear and we would have
sunshine for awhile. During these times we saw no less than 4 different
rainbows, which was quite amazing in itself. But as we saw those we commented
to one another about God's promise to Noah and his family after He had
destroyed the earth with the Great Flood. God said, "I will see it and remember the
everlasting covenant…" He said, "I promise I will never do
this again."  

There
was another covenant even before that one though. After Adam and Eve were
expelled from the Garden of Eden for their sin and disobedience, God Said, "And I
will put enmity between you (Satan) and the woman, and between your offspring (Satan)
and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel."
(Genesis 3:15) This was his promise even in the very beginning of time that
Jesus would come to the world as its Savior.

In Luke 2 God spoke again through an
Angel: "An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone
around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, "Do not
be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.
Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah,
the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths
and lying in a manger." (Vs. 
9-12)

If
there is a message we see reinforced at this time of the year through this
holiday the world proclaims as "Christmas," it is that God remembers
His promises! Think about all of those who proclaim, "Keep Christ in
Christmas."  Many of the Songs that
are sung are a reminder of at least part of the promise of God being fulfilled.

We
know that the word "Christmas," is not in the bible. We understand
that the early Christians did not have Christmas celebrations. We understand
that most of what takes place in our modern Christmas celebrations has nothing
to do with what is recorded in the bible. However that doesn't make the birth
of Christ any less wonderful, any less worthy of being remembered. This one
event truly was a miracle that changed the course of our world as well as each
of our lives for eternity.

God
spoke, He promised, He remembered and He fulfilled that promise through a baby
born in a stable. Let's not forget the fulfilled promise of a Savior which was
born to us in Bethlehem, not just at this time of the year, but all year long.

JUST SHOWING UP DOESN'T GET THE JOB DONE

I love the Cowboy Culture of the 1950's and 60's! Of
course, like many of you I was raised with Cowboys (and Cowgirls), being a main
influence on Television and in the movies. You learned why the good guys were
good and the bad guys were bad. You learned morals and ethics, you learned
respect for others, you learned respect for property and you learned what was
acceptable to say and what wasn't, you even learned about the concept of
"work ethics".

Though he has been dead for a number of years, no one
portrayed what a Cowboy was better than John Wayne. Some say he did it better
than anyone else. John Wayne's characters could ride and fight with the best,
but he always let his concern for others show through also. He portrayed for us
the importance of qualities such as honor, loyalty, bravery and commitment.

In the movie "Rio Bravo," Wayne's character made
a statement that echo's much of Christ's teachings about commitment and what he
expects from us, when he said "Just showing up doesn't get the job
done!"

Jesus tells us, 'If you love me you obey my
commandments"! (John 14:15)
Because you see, just showing up at worship service "doesn't get the job
done," it doesn't do what God demands of us.

I know you may get tired of seeing me refer to this
concept so often in my writings, but I do it because I see it as a major
problem in the churches throughout our land. People want to wear the name
Christian, but they don't want to take it any further than that. Being a Christian
means our lives have been transformed from the very foundation of our being. It
means as Paul said, "I have been crucified with Christ and I no
longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by
faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me." (Galatians
2:20)  It means that you are dead to
self and alive to Christ. It means… that we finally understand that just
showing up doesn't get the job done. It means we finally understand what it
means to be buried with Christ and raised as a new creation (Romans 6:3-4). How about you, do you
really understand that "Just showing up doesn't get the job done?"